“Isn’t this the moment where one of us is supposed to say: Look, this is ridiculous, we love each other, all couples go through this, let’s give it another try.” –Ben
One of the famous heartbreak quotes from the movie the story of us. It basically offers us a view and understanding of how marriage works for some if not for all couples. It is not always bliss, there will also be moments of sadness. These are spices of life and trials exist to test couples love for each other. Whenever you think of ending a relationship, practice the pause and think of it a hundred times. Don’t rush things, talk it over and then decide if it’s worth saving or worth throwing away.
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Thursday, July 15, 2010
..Friends: Here today, Gone tomorrow
I’ve come across an article entitled “Friends.. Here today, gone tomorrow” and begun to reflect at my own personal story of friendship. Looking back 11 years ago, the time of pure innocence, self indulgence and gullible moments came rushing and reliving as if they were scenes from a movie. I had a great childhood, wonderful memories shared by friends, those sleepless nights, drinking sessions, parties and sleepovers, those days when we used to run away from nagging parents and trying out new stuffs without a care in the world. Life is just so good when you have friends to share it with. The good old times, at least that’s how I remembered it. Good, Great and Wonderful.
But life isn’t just about good and happy times. At some point in our existence we get to meet problems and few setbacks that measure our strength and fortitude and it is during these times that we could really use a friend. I’ve reached that point and surprised to see no one but myself and I wonder, “Where did they go?” Not a single notion have I imagined that my friends could just leave me hanging and it left me wretched that I want to fall into oblivion. That was a turning point in my life. My mind was filled with so many questions yet I only have few answers. Where did they go? What did I do? Have I held them too tight, too lose? Or they’re simply just not meant for me.
We can never really tell who our real friends are until we are faced in a situation when we need one. And sometimes when we have, we discover who they are but then it’s too late. I woke up one day with a realization: People come and go. No matter how hard we try to ask them to stay if they don’t want to they never will. I guess, we just have to live with that sad reality and learn to let go of the things and people (most especially) that doesn’t want to stay because if they’re meant for us, they’ll stay with us no matter what.
But life isn’t just about good and happy times. At some point in our existence we get to meet problems and few setbacks that measure our strength and fortitude and it is during these times that we could really use a friend. I’ve reached that point and surprised to see no one but myself and I wonder, “Where did they go?” Not a single notion have I imagined that my friends could just leave me hanging and it left me wretched that I want to fall into oblivion. That was a turning point in my life. My mind was filled with so many questions yet I only have few answers. Where did they go? What did I do? Have I held them too tight, too lose? Or they’re simply just not meant for me.
We can never really tell who our real friends are until we are faced in a situation when we need one. And sometimes when we have, we discover who they are but then it’s too late. I woke up one day with a realization: People come and go. No matter how hard we try to ask them to stay if they don’t want to they never will. I guess, we just have to live with that sad reality and learn to let go of the things and people (most especially) that doesn’t want to stay because if they’re meant for us, they’ll stay with us no matter what.
Friday, May 7, 2010
..no more social life..
i feel like i'm stuck in a rot.. i need to unwind.. go shopping, watch movie, hang out with friends.. i want to have some sense of normalcy in my life.. life is really different when i had carlisle, i cant do those things at once.. i love my baby so much.. he is my everything.. we bond everyday, every hour, every minute.. he demands most of my time that i dont have time for anything else..as much as i want to do those stuffs i sacrificed it for his sake.. im not blaming him or anything it's just that i want to keep the balance.. oh well, if there's one thing i know as of the moment, life doesn't allow me to have the best of both worlds.. i know this is just a phase and soon i'll get through this..
..My day..

..Happy 23rd birthday to me..
..today i've grown a year older..
..another year, another chance..
..another candle added to my cake..
..and wishes to my lists..
..another candle added to my cake..
..and wishes to my lists..
..i'm thankful that i'm still able to celebrate this wonderful day with my family and special people because not everyone is lucky enough to reach this age..
..i had a great time..
..spending it with them is all worth it..
..Whatever life has in store for me, i'm ready for it..
..im not expecting gifts, however i received some..
..oh well, it's always good to expect the unexpected..
..i had a great time..
..spending it with them is all worth it..
..Whatever life has in store for me, i'm ready for it..
..im not expecting gifts, however i received some..
..oh well, it's always good to expect the unexpected..
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
.. watch me grow..
Here are some pictures of my baby that i'm very much proud to share the world. Pictures of him from birth up to the present. I enjoyed looking at these that i realized time really flies. Parang kailan lang, i had him inside me, even up to now, i still can't believe that this little angel was that thing inside my tummy.
Name: Mark Josh Carlisle
N-name: weed2x, lyle, carling
Date: May 1, 2009
Time: 7:49 am
Place: PSH
baby @ the nursery
* 2weeks old
*baby @ 1 mos.
My baby loves the camera.. he knows how to frown and smile.. oh well, i can see a star in the making
oopss! baby's naked.. preparing for his bath
*baby @ 4 m0s.
..pa cute mode..smile for the camera by..
baby with his walker
Happy Christening Mark Josh Carlisle
my bumble bee.. he looks like a bee with his shades on..
he knows how to sit without support and feeds himself with a cookie
My Blog » Blog Archive » Only you
My Blog » Blog Archive » Only you: "Only you
Just when you came
Out of the blue i became
No one could ever tell
Astonished they’ve been
Since you came into my life
Everything fall into place
No one can get in our way
Remembering what you always say
In my life I needed someone
Can you stay and be the one?
On this day my heart belongs to you
My love will always be true
Always and forever I will be
No one can take you away
Zeal of our love, hope it wouldn’t end
All the pains only you can mend
Now till the end of time there is no other
Only you i’ll love forever"
Just when you came
Out of the blue i became
No one could ever tell
Astonished they’ve been
Since you came into my life
Everything fall into place
No one can get in our way
Remembering what you always say
In my life I needed someone
Can you stay and be the one?
On this day my heart belongs to you
My love will always be true
Always and forever I will be
No one can take you away
Zeal of our love, hope it wouldn’t end
All the pains only you can mend
Now till the end of time there is no other
Only you i’ll love forever"
My Blog » Blog Archive » Every Heart
My Blog » Blog Archive » Every Heart:
"Every Heart"
Every heart wants to love a little
better
Every heart needs someone
on their side
Every heart seems a little broken
and hurt
Every heart has someone meant
to heal them
Every heart loves stronger than
anyone knows
Every heart learns to give in and
just be
Every heart knows what trully
love is
Every heart pleads on the inside
for someone to stay
Every heart will love intensely
and strongly…
Forever
"Every Heart"
Every heart wants to love a little
better
Every heart needs someone
on their side
Every heart seems a little broken
and hurt
Every heart has someone meant
to heal them
Every heart loves stronger than
anyone knows
Every heart learns to give in and
just be
Every heart knows what trully
love is
Every heart pleads on the inside
for someone to stay
Every heart will love intensely
and strongly…
Forever

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